Focus on K.I.D.S.

What are the goals of Focus on K.I.D.S.?
The first goal of the program is to teach high-conflict divorcing or divorced parents what they need to do in order to give their children the care they need.

Parents who are successful at this learn skills they can use to fight less, and better communicate and problem solve to benefit their kids.

K.I.D.S. stands for the Knowledge and Insight parents gain that allows them to make good Decisions that lead to real Solutions that will be in the best interest of their children.

Why take this approach?
Just like the name says, this program is focused on helping kids.

It's based on the belief that in the end parents are responsible for the decisions that affect their children. But high-conflict divorcing or divorced parents often find it very hard to get beyond their own emotions about their divorce. In these cases, their children suffer.

And while the focus of a divorce is often on the Parenting Plan W's (Who, Where and When), we believe that the way parents relate to and about one another when they are with their kids, has the biggest affect-good or bad-on their kids.

So, we teach parents how to interact in ways that are focused on what the kids need...not on old hurts and anger.

How is the program organized?

It's Fair and Balanced:
Parents always meet together, never alone, with their counselor. Meetings usually last one hour.
It's Focused on Results:
The sessions help parents, regardless of how they feel, to do what is best for their children.
It's Individualized:
Goals are set to match the particular needs of parents and their children.
It's Flexible:
The number of sessions depends on the needs of the parents. There is no upfront commitment. Most couples achieve their goals in 6-8 sessions.
It Tracks Decisions:
After each meeting, a written summary is sent to each parent and all attorneys so that everyone understands what decisions were agreed upon.
It's There When You Need It:
Parents can return any time to the program if they need more help to work through new problems or old ones.

How much does Focus on K.I.D.S. cost?
The parent's combined income determines the fees per visit, which also includes all materials. Payment must be made at the time of each visit. The cost per visit is usually spilt equally between the partners.

For referrals to this program please contact Angela Duhaime at 892-7042 ext. 720